Wednesday Wisdom

I haven't written much about work on here, with good reason. I am a social worker/therapist with a private agency and I work with children and families of all kinds who are dealing with the state child welfare system. I love my job, and sometimes I am amazed and humbled at the capacity for healing and strength in wounded people. Sometimes, it feels too big, too sad, and just plain discouraging. It's been a rough week and I'm holding out for a glimmer of hope. Thankfully, I have some gracious supervisors, one of whom directed me to this story by Loren Eiseley. I first read this a few years back when an adoptive mother sent it my way, thinking of her sweet boys. It was just the reminder I needed this week . . .

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Once upon a time, there was a wise man who used to go to the ocean to do his writing. He had a habit of walking on the beach before he began his work.

One day, as he was walking along the shore, he looked down the beach and saw a human figure moving like a dancer. He smiled to himself at the thought of someone who would dance to the day, and so, he walked faster to catch up.

As he got closer, he noticed that the figure was that of a young man, and that what he was doing was not dancing at all. The young man was reaching down to the shore, picking up small objects, and throwing them into the ocean.

He came closer still and called out "Good morning! May I ask what it is that you are doing?"

The young man paused, looked up, and replied "Throwing starfish into the ocean." "

"I must ask, then, why are you throwing starfish into the ocean?" asked the somewhat startled wise man.

To this, the young man replied, "The sun is up and the tide is going out. If I don't throw them in, they'll die."

Upon hearing this, the wise man commented, "But, young man, do you not realize that there are miles and miles of beach and there are starfish all along every mile? You can't possibly make a difference!"

At this, the young man bent down, picked up yet another starfish, and threw it into the ocean. As it met the water, he said, "It made a difference for that one."

And so, we work. Blessings,